The reason you won't increase your fee is because of the accountability that comes with a price.
I understand. When Sarah and I started the Celebrant Institute I didn't want to charge a large number because if I was charging $500 a month membership I wouldn't sleep at night until I felt I had delivered $500 a month of value, and more, to each member each month.
You're reading a free letter. Hopefully the value you get is even more.
The question you've got to ask yourself is that if no-one is holding you accountable, how will you grow? Like that old analogy about trees not growing tall in the dome without wind, you don't grow without accountability, feedback, mentorship, friendship, community.
Raise your price, raise your accountability, increase your growth, become better, sleep at night knowing you've given everything you have.
That's my secret to a good night's sleep: accountability.