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On the internet, nobody knows you're a dog

Weekly Question and Answer edition

It can be a bit lonely here in self-employment and solo-employment land, that's why I created the Campfire (link in email footer), but I also love your email replies.

Most of your email replies shape future writing I do, but I'm making a place each week to directly answer a question.

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Advice for new celebrants

Today's question is from Christine:

I’d love to hear your number 1 tip or piece of advice for new celebrants.

On the internet, nobody knows you're a dog

Christine, the best thing about the wedding industry - the secret none of us want to admit - is that longterm market branding doesn't matter. It's different to most other goods and services, like if you were buying a TV today we could have a long chat about which brands and features you'd like at what price points.

But in the wedding industry that doesn't exist. No-one's talking about celebrants.

The advantage to you is that the couple that got engaged today doesn't know who I am, or you are, so you get just as much of a chance to put your best foot forward as I do.

I'm not suggesting you should immediately step up to the same plate of expectations, price, workload, and quality of service as veterans, but it's like the New Yorker cartoon from 1993: on the internet, nobody knows you're a dog.

On the internet, nobody knows you're a dog

You can, instead, choose to be brave and courageous and to do wild things in the name of convincing people to book you as their celebrant.