I'm better than you (seriously, so much better than you) at being me, than you could ever try to be,
If you want to lose the game: copy me, and everything I do at weddings and for my couples.
Want to win? Seek wisdom, advice, help from places and people you value and respect (maybe from me) and turn all of those resources towards you being you.
I'm terrible at being you, I am the worst you that will ever exist.
I'll let you win that race.