We often consider ourselves - celebrants, people who create ceremony - to be people that are only giving to a wedding.
But we also receive.
Our lack of consideration for what we receive from a wedding can leave us confused.
Walking into wedding ceremonies in which we, along with the people around us, have no clear idea what we want.
- I want to feel like I made something important
- I want to believe I made their day better
- I need to believe that I made their wedding better than anyone else could have on that day.
Set an expectation for yourself, to get that response, laugh, smile, feeling. Walk in to your next wedding with that high expectation ... and you might just get what you want.
Talking about knowing what we want, the more I write this letter the more I know I want to work with celebrants like you who want to perform better, grow their businesses whilst also leading a fulfilling life with family, friends, whatever your enjoyable life might be. I recently posted a call out for readers of this letter to respond if you wanted to talk about a regular coaching program, or to book in an intensive day where you and I work relentlessly for a day on your business systems, automations, workflows, and product.
Many of you responded, and this is my reminder to hit reply if you're keen, I've got room in my calendar for maybe 1 or 2 more people.